(1) The orgasm occurs slightly before ejaculation.(2) Women take an average of 20 minutes to orgasm from oral sex, Gallant informs us, give or take half-an-hour.(3) Masters and Johnson define premature ejaculation as the inability to delay ejaculation long enough for the woman to orgasm fifty percent of the time.(4) they don't know what it is to reach orgasm(5) Lest we forget, it is quite possible for men to orgasm without ejaculation.(6) But if you are regularly exercising your pubic muscles and practising how to orgasm without ejaculate, it will eventually become second nature.(7) When he wrote that a woman could only conceive if she had an orgasm during sexual intercourse, it was taken as gospel and caused all manner of anxieties.(8) There are other benefits, too - studies have shown that women who orgasm frequently during pregnancy are more likely to have easy deliveries.(9) You always have to orgasm and if not, something is wrong with you.(10) Many people say that the orgasm is the most pleasurable and fulfilling part of sex.(11) That is, it controls the most base, primal part of ourselves, our sex drive and the physical/psychological urge to orgasm , and focuses it.(12) Although he had an orgasm and ejaculated, his erection remained hard for five hours and then subsided.(13) Hence, the aim of sexual intercourse for a male was to give the female an orgasm while avoiding ejaculation.(14) The intensity of her orgasm had nearly brought tears to her eyes.(15) To make it far harder for a women to orgasm means that her male partner needs to know her very well and probably spend a lot of time with her, maybe years with her.(16) While ejaculation offered proof that a man had reached climax, a female orgasm was confirmed by physiological measurements such as heart rate.